How to Talk with Your Doctor
Key Takeaways
Being honest and transparent with your doctor will allow them to deliver the best care possible.
Discussing your mental health is just as important as discussing physical health. If you’re struggling with mental health, your primary care physician can point you to a specialist who can support you further.
Feel empowered in your relationship with your doctor by speaking up and advocating for yourself.
What Do You and Your Doctor Discuss at Each Visit?
Few things are as personal as your health. Building a healthy relationship with your doctor is essential. You can risk a missed diagnosis if you are not honest about your health issues or habits.
Common Questions to Ask Your Doctor
Always prepare for any doctor’s appointment—for example, a list of questions.
Below are a few common questions you could ask your doctor:
- First, it’s essential to ask your provider if they accept the Medicare plan you have – and if they will continue taking it in the future
- When discussing your care plan with your doctor, have a clear understanding of what you need to do next, e.g., which lab tests are necessary
- Ask for a printout of your personal care plan when you leave the doctor’s office.
- Ask about the best communication method to use between you and your doctor in case you have any questions or concerns between doctor’s appointments
What Are Some Issues I Should Discuss with my Doctor?
- Talk to your doctor about pain. When describing your pain with your doctor, be as descriptive as possible. If you are vague in your description, your doctor may not address your pain correctly. Additionally, not only may your pain persist, but it might even get worse. If your pain persists for an extended period, bring it up with your doctor.
- Talk to your doctor about mental health. Although talking about mental health may be difficult, remember that it is a common problem amongst individuals, so you should not be afraid to bring it up with your doctor. If mental illness is left untreated, it can worsen and potentially lead to other health issues down the road.
- Talk to your doctor about something embarrassing. An excellent first step in bringing up an embarrassing issue is recognizing that your doctor is a professional whose goal is to improve your health. When discussing the issue, make sure to be direct about the problem, and don’t be shy about following up about it during future doctor’s appointments if the issue hasn’t been resolved.
Overall, the relationship you have with your doctor speaks volumes as to how your overall health is handled. Finding a doctor who you trust and also matches your personality and needs is the first step. From there, fostering an open and honest conversation with them during each appointment, and maintaining an open line of communication between appointments, will not only help you stay accountable and keep you on track with your care plan, but will also help your doctor make the best care decisions for you.
